ipmanyak спасибо за наводку
дело было в Backscatter
причём он был если я правильно понял в режиме "логирования" - т.е. галка на отклонении и т.д. почты не стояла
но видимо при его включении адрес подменяется на ту белиберду вида prvs=123444751c=******@домен
и соот. удалённый сервер может и послать (вполне справедливо), что походу и происходило
Добавлено: накаркал
приключения продолжаются
логи smtp-in и out:
[no]Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:51: Session 629379; child 0002
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:51: Accepting SMTP connection from [192.168.1.158:1668] to [192.168.1.10:25]
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:51: --> 220 mail.moscowbooks.ru ESMTP MDaemon 13.6.3; Tue, 01 Jul 2014 12:51:51 +0400
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:51: <-- EHLO localhost
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:51: --> 250-mail.moscowbooks.ru Hello localhost, pleased to meet you
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:51: --> 250-ETRN
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:51: --> 250-AUTH LOGIN CRAM-MD5 PLAIN
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:51: --> 250-8BITMIME
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:51: --> 250 SIZE 25600000
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:51: <-- AUTH CRAM-MD5
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:51: --> 334 PE1EQUVNT04tRjIwMTQwNzAxMTI1MS5BQTUxNTE2MTBNRDAwMTJAbWFpbC5tb3Njb3dib29rcy5ydT4=
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:51: <-- b3Jsb3ZhIDUzNDI2OTQ1YTRmM2JmOTY3ZDRlYTg2MDdiNzcwMmZm
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:51: --> 235 Authentication successful
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:51: Authenticated as ******@moscowbooks.ru
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:51: <-- MAIL FROM:<******@moscowbooks.ru> SIZE=10272
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:51: --> 250 <******@moscowbooks.ru>, Sender ok
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:51: <-- RCPT TO:<********@adw.ru>
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:51: --> 250 <********@adw.ru>, Recipient ok
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:51: <-- RCPT TO:<ss@adw.ru>
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:51: --> 250 <ss@adw.ru>, Recipient ok
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:51: <-- RSET
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:51: --> 250 RSET? Well, ok.
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:51: <-- RSET
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:51: --> 250 RSET? Well, ok.
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:51: <-- RSET
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:51: --> 250 RSET? Well, ok.
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:51: <-- MAIL FROM:<******@moscowbooks.ru> SIZE=10272
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:51: --> 250 <******@moscowbooks.ru>, Sender ok
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:51: <-- RCPT TO:<********@adw.ru>
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:51: --> 250 <********@adw.ru>, Recipient ok
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:51: <-- RCPT TO:<ss@adw.ru>
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:51: --> 250 <ss@adw.ru>, Recipient ok
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:51: <-- DATA
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:51: Creating temp file (SMTP): c:\mdaemon\queues\temp\md50000000826.tmp
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:51: --> 354 Enter mail, end with <CRLF>.<CRLF>
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:51: Message size: 10276 bytes
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:51: Passing message through AntiVirus (Size: 10276)...
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:51: * Сообщение чистое (вирусов не обнаружено)
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:51: ---- End AntiVirus results
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:51: Создание сообщения successful: c:\mdaemon\queues\inbound\md50013558563.msg
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:51: --> 250 Ok, message saved <Message-ID: <514938683.20140701125151@moscowbooks.ru>>
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:52: <-- QUIT
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:52: --> 221 See ya in cyberspace
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:52: SMTP session successful (Bytes in/out: 10582/756)
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:52: ----------
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:53: Session 629382; child 0001
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:53: Parsing message <c:\mdaemon\remoteq\pd35000695834.msg>
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:53: * From: ******@moscowbooks.ru
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:53: * To: ********@adw.ru
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:53: * Subject: *** *** ****** *****
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:53: * Size (bytes): 10741
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:53: * Message-ID: <514938683.20140701125151@moscowbooks.ru>
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:53: * Route slip host: adw.ru
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:53: * Route slip port: 25
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:53: Attempting SMTP connection to [adw.ru]
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:53: Resolving MX records for [adw.ru] (DNS Server: 192.168.1.1)...
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:53: * P=010 S=000 D=adw.ru TTL=(312) MX=[adw.ru]
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:53: Attempting SMTP connection to [adw.ru:25]
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:53: * Cache hit on adw.ru; IP = 217.23.147.230
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:53: Waiting for socket connection...
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:53: * Connection established (212.5.66.66:59066 -> 217.23.147.230:25)
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:53: Waiting for protocol to start...
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:53: <-- 220
www.adw.ru ESMTP Exim 4.66 Tue, 01 Jul 2014 12:51:53 +0400
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:53: --> EHLO mail.moscowbooks.ru
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:53: <-- 250-www.adw.ru Hello mail.moscowbooks.ru [212.5.66.66]
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:53: <-- 250-SIZE 104857600
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:53: <-- 250-ETRN
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:53: <-- 250-PIPELINING
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:53: <-- 250-AUTH LOGIN PLAIN
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:53: <-- 250 HELP
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:53: --> MAIL From:<******@moscowbooks.ru> SIZE=10741
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:53: <-- 250 OK
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:53: --> RCPT To:<********@adw.ru>
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:53: <-- 250 Accepted
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:53: --> RCPT To:<ss@adw.ru>
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:53: <-- 250 Accepted
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:53: --> DATA
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:53: <-- 354 Enter message, ending with "." on a line by itself
Tue 2014-07-01 12:51:53: Sending <c:\mdaemon\remoteq\pd35000695834.msg> to [217.23.147.230]
Tue 2014-07-01 12:52:15: * Winsock Error 10054
Tue 2014-07-01 12:52:15: Ошибка при записи в сокет
Tue 2014-07-01 12:52:15: Socket connection closed by the other side (how rude!)
Tue 2014-07-01 12:52:15: * Winsock Error 10053
Tue 2014-07-01 12:52:15: Соединение прервано
Tue 2014-07-01 12:52:15: ----------[/no]
и фиг поймёшь чего произошло...
т.е. часть проблем конечно решилась с отключением Backscatter (проверил прохождение по одному и тому же адресу - ошибка в конкретном случае пропала), но таже самая ошибка осталась у некоторых других сообщений